so i have been running myself rugged to make the man i schlep for happy but alas the ways of the man are a mystery for he/she/it can never be pleased. During such un-fun times it is necessary to resort to the bag of pick me ups.

chocolatey bliss the man? what man ? i loves you man!

live long and prosper. beam me up scotty!
last but most important,

refuge,refuge,refuge